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Written by Angela Wairimu   
Wednesday, 25 February 2009

A friend of mine recently recalled that old quote attributed to Bertrand Russell, that women were the oddest of all oppressed groups. While other prisoners of oppressive structures actively agitated for their freedom, women often fought against, not just those seeking to liberate them, but against the very idea of liberty itself.

That is a little unfair, there’s always groups privileged within oppressive orders that stand, not irrationally, against impending emancipation.  What liberty itself means will always be a subjective, highly controversial matter, just consider the debate on the hijab or polygamy for head-spinning examples.

This does not take away from the fact that the comfort that the familiar, the customary, supplies is often very difficult to let go of, especially when it is supported by age old customs, breaking with which may cause one to incur the heaviest social sanction. This sanction does not exclude the disapproval of those dearest and nearest to them, such as the honor killings suffered by women in many parts of the Middle East.

Against this background, as we saw in parliament last week, women across the world continue to fight their case against oppressive structures.

Nominated ODM MP Millie Odhiambo refused a place among the bouquets of shrinking violets.  Flaming in parliament this week against city lawyer Cecil Miller’s nomination for the headship of the Interim Independent Electoral Commission, she argued the incident of violence against his wife ought to lead to his automatic disqualification from officiating at or heading so lofty and controversial a position as the chairmanship of the IIEC.

As a result of Ms Odhiambo’s intervention, the Kenyan public will be compelled to a discussion on the rights of women, and whether those who are known to have infringed on these rights, and specifically to have beaten their wives, ought not to suffer the same prohibitions on serving in public office as do murderers, rapists and the bankrupt. 

It is tragic that we do not have a moral code in this country. Critics of Ms Odhiambo’s intervention have pointed to the extremely violent nature and history of her sponsor party, and to the fact that its list is populated by characters of a far more odious predisposition than Miller, murderers, peculators and yes, even a callous, publicly shamed wife-beating MP from Western Province. Ms Odhiambo’s very home province, one which she shares with her party chief, has been transformed by a violent, macho politics into one of the least woman friendly in the country. Attitudes towards women there persist as the most backward in the country. An incredible 79% of women there believe violence against women to be justified for transgressions as minor as burning of food. Clearly, there’s a lot of work to do here.

 

So perhaps Ms Odhiambo is insincere in her protestations, but this does not or ought not to detract from the validity of her argument, that senior public officials should be persons of sound if not unimpeachable moral standing. It does not diminish at all the fact that as a country aiming for equal representation of women in all spheres of public life, and lagging far behind our neighbors, including war-torn Somalia, accepting a man who has been charged with violence against women as the head of our Electoral Commission –especially considering the significance of vicious sexism in our electoral system- sends a very disheartening message to activists for women’s rights across the country.

Her cry is not just interesting for what it means for the public debate on women’s rights, but more for the drive towards a more accountable public leadership. We cannot elevate men of questionable character to high office, and then express outrage when they break the law or otherwise flout some expected standard of behavior. Our acclamation of them, our contribution to their political efforts is a tacit endorsement of their conduct.

If we believe a leader unsuitable, even odious, let us protest prior to his selection or election. As recent experience has shown, the courts, parliament and even public opprobrium are of little use in pushing them out after they are sworn in and enjoying the trappings of the high office we have given to them. 


Angela Wairimu
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Ugh!
written by mkosakabila , March 01, 2009
Isnt it tragic that so much has been conveniently read into what is obviously a politically motivated statement--perhaps even ethnically motivated too?
Two things seem important. One, that some kind of evidence (beyond hearsay) is provided re the alleged wife battering. That is one simple, minimum standard that we should all be encouraging in KI.
And two, that any supporter and/or promoter of women's rights be honest with themselves and structure their support in a deliberate and well thought out fashion as opposed to this cheap opportunism that barely gains any mileage for the 'opressed' as against those who puport to speak on their behalf.
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written by Ali Z , March 01, 2009
Spousal abuse is criminal, just like murder or pick-pocketing; therefore I personally will not care about the motivation of a person who blocks a suspected criminal from ascending to arguably most powerful positions in the country. It is the reason I would be uncomfortable with a qualified Mungiki guy, or a qualified street-thief leading the body.

Secondly a country like Kenya needs political correctness; defined as ideas, policies, or behaviour seen as seeking to minimize offense to gender, tribal or other identity groups. I honestly don’t care about the motivation of a politician when they are politically correct, it may be helpful in reducing the tensions that are ever present in this country.


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Mindlessness
written by mkosakabila , March 03, 2009
Suit yourself.
I personally will NOT support nor condone decisions/actions taken on the basis of rumor and innuendo REGARDLESS of the principle that is allegedly being supported. I say again---PROVIDE THE EVIDENCE--even political correctness (whatever that means) has some minimal requirements, not everything is as cheap as we'd want!!
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We can stop this
written by Paula , November 26, 2009
Having just helped a battered friend in Nairobi I can tell you that Kenya is not serious about ending violence against women. The police laugh, waste your time, mis inform you, send you on goose chases, but worse there is nowhere to go to get facts about what to do and your options, no simple place to get clear info on legal and criminal issues, and frankly - it feels like easier to just walk away and count your losses. No wonder most women don't report cases of abuse. It's criminal and women raise men who become wife beaters, abusers, acoholics, rapists (yes domestic rape is a crime even if its not recognized in Kenya) you name it. You are right, we women need to see how we can be the start of the end of violence against women - we need help lines, access to free and anonymous counseling, websites to access information, cell phone support services (not long matatu rides to Kenyatta hospital). Most of all we need information in schools to help our daughters and sons to understand that it is a very serious crime everytime daddy beats up mummy. Forget about what it does to us, our bodies, our minds, or spirit, it messes up our children for life to see us take the beatings. It must not be tolerated we can stop this guys. I'm compiling resources on www.wildaboutafrica.wordpress.com and will make sure we have details on the citizen reporting crime site hatari.co.ke too
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