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Written by Noel Opoti   
Tuesday, 29 May 2007

Rolling away from the church graveyard, Steven was deep in thought. He had not always been in a wheelchair.

He was once an active sportsman, playing soccer and rugby and even having a go at basketball. It had been just three months since his accident. He felt angry and at times frustrated. People that had never been nice to him suddenly seemed to be giving him so much attention. They had never given him the light of day yet now they said things like, "Can I get that for you?" and " Just let me know if I can be of any assistance."

He felt patronized and belittled. He wanted to be allowed to do things on his own. It was not easy for him to ask for help but whenever he really needed it he asked. He had now begun to see what life must have been like for all those others he had seen on wheelchairs and never empathised with. Areas on campus suddenly became inaccessible and getting from place to place was no longer a walk in the park. It was pity that they all felt for him. Once a vibrant student, he had become angry and reclusive.

Deep down there was guilt and remorse. Why didn't he drive that night? He had certainly been in better shape than Andrew. Andrew's funeral service and the seconds before the collision were etched in his mind. He regretted that he had not stopped the course of events that had led to Annie's comma!! The doctors knew neither when nor if she would ever get up... .


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written by a guest , May 31, 2007
Don't drink and drive!
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written by judas , June 01, 2007
yes, putting ourselves in other's shoes....
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written by charity kivuli , June 02, 2007
Don't drink and drive!


GOSH! THat was harsh annonymous, please re-phrase!!!
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written by a guest , June 02, 2007
It is called consequences Charity!

You slosh, put yourself behind the wheel, or allow your friend to, be ready for the consequences, period.

Steve should now use his experience to make some positive out of it! Being angry and a recluse is of no help here!

No time for shoulda, coulda, woulda!

Fact:

He was partially responsible for Annies state and Steve's death. Now what?
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Aside from that
written by noel , June 07, 2007
The story is also meant to sensitize the reader about the life of someone on a wheelchair, irregardless of how they ended up there. All disabled people face some sort of stigma where society either thinks they are helpless or society may just alternatively ignore them totally.

Take for instance this man I met on the bus the other day!! He looked injured and it was difficult to understand what he was saying. He had a limp, a form of speech impairment and a sort of spaciness about him that could easily make you assume he was a drunk or a mad man. But he wasn't he was just another handicapped person trying to get from day to day like the rest of us.
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Indeed.
written by Grace , June 03, 2008
Drunk driving is just absurd from the word go there is no grey to it, just a solid black that many at times has lead to very tragic endings. Taking responsibility for your actions and making good choices and decisions should be compulsory to every creature. Put your guard up and do not let such instances happen again.

People with disabilities, both mental and developmental and anyother... are human beings that need us to look out and maintain their respect and dignity and very importantly, Independence. Instead of pity; courage and instead of belittling; praise. Empower them to be better people and esteem them very higly even above ourselves.

All in all, Treat others as you would have them treat you.
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Depth and Breadth
written by UrXlnc , June 03, 2008
Its amazing how in so few words all the above can convey some deep thoughts

and i agree

a) must be a little more sensitive
b) in order to leave no room for regret, take control of situations as early as possible
c) when in regretable circumstances its important to find ways to move forward.

its so easy to automatically respond to environments through our sometimes shallow classification and stereotyping of people and situations (pity, ridicule, boot-licking or sucking up etc) are instinctive stereo-typed approaches long inculcated and permanently etched in some of our sub-conscious. it takes presence of mind and effort to actually communicate (listen, discuss, relate) to a person as a unique individual and not because of what we perceive as his situation/environment (.. do not judge a book by its cover or so they say...)

good article, with deep meaning
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